donor dad

[DeLuDe]

Hello friends,
Been away for ages but it's good to see this place is still around and I'd like to share a story. Last year I met two lovely Australian girls who were travelling around the world and wanted to become parents. We got in touch through a site that connects sperm donors and recipients that I had signed up years before without giving it much thought or thinking anyone would ever get in touch. We met a couple of times to establish trust and seemed to get along quite well so over the course of a week every other day they invited me to dinner at their AirBnB (they made delicious vegetarian food and maca biscuits) after which I went to the bathroom to have a wank, then quickly said good bye and left. 9 months later they had a baby girl. We've kept in touch, chatting on whatsapp once every few weeks, they've sent pictures of her and have been really nice. Now they're traveling to Europe and I'm going to Spain to see all three of them. I think it's great we're going to meet so early on and imagine they're going to be very open and honest with the girl once she starts asking questions about how she was conceived etc and I won't be some mystical figure she may or may not meet once she turns 18 as is in the more conventional clinical donation scenarios. I'm very excited and a bit nervous. I care about them but realize I'm not really family as we've only met a few times. How do i refer to the baby? Daughter seems to overstep a boundary while biological daughter is way too cumbersome. Any thoughts on this unconventional way to create life?

[judih]

You are her conceptive vehicle.
Call her by her name and radiate pride, love and acceptance.
That should do it!


Enjoy.