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People => The Long House => Topic started by: winder on January 11, 2007, 08:44:28 AM

Title: Winder soon to be solo
Post by: winder on January 11, 2007, 08:44:28 AM
Hesitantly, I announce here that my wife will be leaving me.

Sadness has set in and I loathe being alone and ever having to date again.
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Post by: laughingwillow on January 11, 2007, 09:27:37 AM
I'm so sorry to hear that, bro. I can't imagine that pain. My wife means everything to me and I know you always spoke well of yours.

lw
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Post by: judih on January 11, 2007, 10:45:27 AM
wondering what to say. It's such a wrenching pain, separating from someone you want to be with.
it's good to talk about it, though. that's about all that helps to release the pain and sadness.

talking, walking, singing, screaming, writing, running. anything that helps express the emotion helps.

best to you, winder.
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Post by: VajraPirate on January 11, 2007, 12:58:03 PM
Hey man, real sorry to hear that then.

Absolutely unreconcilable, then? I know you guys have been struggling to keep things together the past year or two, it's just sad to see it didn't work despite all your efforts.

May you both find happiness and comfort!!
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Post by: winder on January 11, 2007, 09:31:30 PM
Yeah, losing her sucks, but it has been coming.

We also lost my cat of 10 years over the Thanksgiving weekend.
I had a cure for that easily available with some natural product I had accumulated and adoption of a new cat from the animal shelter.

Damn, I wished I had saved some of that natural product.
As for adopting a new wife, that is somewhat more difficult than going to the women's shelter.
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Post by: Syd on January 11, 2007, 10:46:56 PM
my condolences winder. My marriage broke up as well, and we were seperated for a year and a half. The divorce is final as we speak.
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Post by: Cassie on January 13, 2007, 04:27:08 AM
:(
My brothers, I wish you both strength (kia kaha) to move forward from the break ups of your relationships. I know this has been a tough 18months for you Syd.
You can always come and chew the fat (shoot the shit) in the chatroom; we're just a click away. Now hosted at yage.net by our ever-busy benefactor.
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Post by: Veracohr on January 14, 2007, 03:21:02 PM
Sorry to hear that Winder. I wish there were something useful to say, but in these situations there usually isn't. Take care of yourself.  :)